It will be ... it didn't go the way I thought it would on our 1st session. I would imagine now that there has been double infidelity things will be more difficult. I thought SH would have encouraged us to spend more time together, but didn't. I am hoping we can do a session next week. H goes back to the town of debauchery again in a couple of weeks ... I think that I should be able to go so we establish a presence of our M with the people he was acting inappropriately with. We'll see. Let's hope we can get him to do the EN & LB Qs next week. Baby steps are just fine ... you are right-o Longhorn!