Nothing more to it than H is generally nice to everyone, including those he hates. If you think its appropriate to let him know that I hope H tells XOM to play in traffic (good one, btw) or take a long walk off a short cliff, I am more than happy to do so.

I only was concerned about telling him what I think he should do being a Lb somehow. I know that after his W has an A, a BH can feel less manly and so I didn't want H to think that I thought that he didn't have a pair of his own. Does that make any sense?