He seems confused as well. For instance:
Today he asked what he can do while out of town that would make me happy. I told him that I always really appreciate when he takes time to call and text me. Later when we were talking about how great we get along in a semi-long distance M, he notes that we are "just friends". Later I got the ILYBNILWY speech.

Sometimes I wonder if he actually does want to work on the M, but doesn't want to admit it to himself or to me. Like admitting it would mean that he gave in to my A and let me "win". I truly wonder if this manipulative behavior is a control thing, an ego thing, a self-preservation thing. Maybe I am just too hopeful and he really wants out?

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