Two of our ENs are the same: SF and O&H. We can easily meet the SF need, and have both been much better about O&H. Financial support I can certainly understand. I know everyone here takes issue with his travel schedule, but I knew his profession when I married him and knew that there is no way to success in his career without traveling. Its just something that doesn't bother me - though I wish I could meet him out of town.

The "freedom" EN was something that I think he threw in there to be humorous and spiteful. He wants to do what he wants, when he wants and knows that M doesn't always allow for that. He is seriously cake-eating here, and I know it. The lack of remorse and total justification for his A says to me that he still feels that what I did was "worse" and that he gets to be in control of the M from that point forward, regardless of what he did. I feel that the future of the M should be POJA'd, but maybe I'm addicted to MB! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I agree that his actions are rather un-admirable. I just told my best friend this a.m. that it was like (in his mind) he was able to get away with not returning call & TMs because he was "surprising" me by coming home for Mother's Day.

And, while I always like Longhorn's advice ... it would be nice to get input from others as well.

I'll consider calling in to the radio show this week.