In a sense, your husband still is wayward because he won't even consider committing to recovery. In fact, except for the fact you don't think he's still in contact with OW, he meets all the criteria of a wayward spouse, does he not? He's still fixed on the idea he was entitled to his own affair and is withdrawing credits from your Love Bank (LB) almost daily. He could draw this out indefinitely if he's allowed to, so a mechanism is necessary to get him off that fence.

This would be a good question to pose on the radio show.

Last edited by Longhorn; 05/09/07 06:57 PM.