Additionally, it could be said his was the worst betrayal because he knew first hand the depth of the emotional impact it would cause.


I would agree with this entirely. His excuse is that in his mind, we weren't married anymore from the moment he found out about my A

GTFOOH....It is more reasonable to look at it as YOUR affair started this whole mess....that his affair was a result of the wounds that YOU inflicted on him and that it would not have happened without your striking first. This is the biggest bunch of bull crappy to be thrown around here in a while. Remember... you gave him HIS excuse on a silver platter with your actions. It would have been good for him if he never did anything about it... but please... worse than yours???? Not a chance.