You should probably be a therapist LH! LOL You are dead-on here, I believe.

I was just talking to my best friend about this ...
She has been my best friend since we were 14 years old! She told me how proud she was that I stood up for what I wanted for once. She said to me: "TFC - I've been wondering where you've been! You've been replaced by a doormat since you got married and I've wondered quietly all this time what happened to the best friend I had that always stood up for what she wanted and believed in! See - if you had just told your H what you wanted in your M all along, maybe you wouldn't have ever had your stupid A!" (She's very blunt!)

H said yesterday that he was planning on finding an IC when he gets back in town. And we did do that one session with SH and he actually enjoyed it! H tends to shy away from that sort of thing since his mom is a therapist. I think we will be able to get in MC with SH soon ... I'm not going to push the subject, but I will bring it up when the timing feels right!

I was so glad that we were able to compromise ... he gets to work for a bit, and I still get my date! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />