I don't feel like I can talk to my H about anything serious. Every time I try to have a conversation about something with regards to responsibility (i.e. childcare, money, etc.) "its not a good time". And its NEVER a good time! I am stuck with all the responsibility ... so there he is with the benefits of a M and none of the responsibility. And I get soooooooooooooo frustrated! So there it is ... and I can't change it because I can't change him. So how do I approach this subject? I've told him a million times in a million different ways, and nothing seems to work. So what else can I try?

Don't get me wrong ... I'm not blaming him for anything based on this post. I am upset that I don't feel that I can ever approach him.

Last edited by time_for_change; 05/24/07 02:38 PM.