Nope, if I wasn't convinced of your sincere remorse for your affair and honesty, I wouldn't be here right now. I don't recall what MEDC said, and I'm not even going to go look for it because he has exactly one response when he sees an admission the betrayed spouse has also had an affair. It was when I saw your remorse, and his obstinate refusal to budge off the 2X4's that I decided to get involved.

I don't know what you mean by attitudes or behaviors not widely accepted, but I've not seen any evidence of such. If you'd like to talk about it, elbow up to the table and lay your cards down, okay? ("World Poker Tour" on the Travel Channel is playing in the background.) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />