Oh yes, financial matters (if you go into Plan B) are going to be a BIG awakening for him. Huge wakeup call for many WS's. That's legitimate. Financial security is one of the basic EN's and Dr. Harley discusses it in one of his two scenarios in SAA. I think it was "Sue" who began missing the financial security her husband provided.

I hesitate to suggest you pose as anyone except for yourself. What would you gain by doing that beyond what you already know? Besides, as you say, keeping the high ground is always best.

You pick the time and place for D-day #2, TFC. Don't ambush him, but set yourself up for success in the matter.