TFC...if I were in your shoes, I would do a shout out to Pep, ML, BK, BopP, Mr & Mrs W... etc... you can do that on your topic line. While LH may be providing you with support (at this point I do not know as I am ignoring him) those that I mentioned are the best at offering you sound advice. LH had what I would consider a bit of a meltdown last week and put many, many long time vets here that are well respected on ignore. Personally, I think that you should be getting advice from more than one source here.

I don't feel like I want to battle with LH or you regarding your situation. Perhaps it will be better for you to get the input of vets here that have helped countless numbers of people.

Good luck.