I'm sorry, TFC. I know it's confusing, and everything hurts. You are the one who has to do the hard work in this and that’s not fair, but no one else can do anything more than advise. I point out things I see from long-distance and I hope they’re more useful than not, but there's no intent to cause more pain than you're already experiencing.

Let all this slide for the rest of the afternoon and evening, okay? Making a decision on anything about your relationship is not a good thing to do today, so consciously forbid yourself to do it. Sit back and relax, pushing all this out of your mind.

Let's talk when you're ready, okay?

Hard to do this ... especially when I just found out OW tried to come home with my H on his b-day LAST YEAR! And, the girl I was originally concerned about? The one that is really just a friend but had the inappropriate IMs? Just found out their "friendship" started back in September 2006 - BEFORE MY A! He never told me about her! He told me he wasn't like this before my A ... well, it seems he was!

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