He's not seeing anyone in particular - he just hangs out with other women too much and talks to them too personally. That is a boundary that will now be enforced like an orange-alert! I'm not going into MC unless there is a full-on commitment to drop this habit of his and tell these women that their conversations have been too personal. I'm also not going unless he man ups and takes my hand and walks me into his b-day party. Its time to show and tell everyone (especially each other) that we're gonna be married the right way! Most other boundaries have been met as of late. Of course the girls are the biggie!