Well, we are of the same opinion ... H has painted a really ugly picture of me over the last 6 months and I will have to fight that stigma pretty hard. Showing up, unwanted, will be a great way to publicly humiliate myself and prove at least some of the picture to be truthful. Since I'm not into getting embarrassed or being a ******, its best that I not go. Sunday I will have an opportunity to prove all that wrong when we make a family appearance at a function where OW will almost definitely be present ... it is a MAJOR social function, so it is probably a better opportunity anyway.