MB principles aren't a straight jacket. They're guides to help you focus on what you need to do. Patience? Hmmmmmmm Yeah, that might be something you could work on. (On the other hand, couldn't we all?) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Yes, you did show him. It seems to me you’re being unduly critical of yourself. My goodness, don't look for perfection in such things. What you're going through is highly volatile because of the intense emotions involved. Every step you took in the minefield getting to this point had the potential for something to blow up in your face and a few missteps aren't critical in the long term. I think you’ve done pretty darn well. Keep up the good work and be ready for a step backward from time to time, okay?

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