Well, I met with our MC individually last week, H did as well. I've been in IC for almost 7 months figuring through all this and working on myself. After about 30 mins with MC Q&A re: my affair, our MC looks at me and says "Well, this seems to be basic Mars & Venus stuff ..." Don't quite know what to make of that.

But the good news is that my H is a better H now than ever before ... we are both really trying at this and I am sooooooo happy. The upcoming vacation should help matters too. And we're even planning a date night soon! YAY!