You're right, Longhorn, he always gets compliant with his back against a wall. Just 2 weeks ago I told him he had 24 hours to spill the rest ... and he didn't. Now here we are again - with even more info PLUS 2 STDs! Where does the line get drawn? When do I say "you've had too many chances to tell the truth, just go"?

I did get tested for myself - had one that was (luckily) curable, but not the other. Sex is the LAST thing on my mind anyway!

I love him, but trust is so far away. With Christmas coming up I don't want to spend the money for the polygraph, but I have to know the truth.

He is also supposed to go out of town this weekend, and I am not comfortable with it at all. But we still have to earn our livings.