Thanks for the reply and the suggestion. I'm just thinking of how to frame it a little differently. Most of this mess was my fault. She's still been fine, I still feel wrecked. We've gotten along fine, I just feel guarded. I'm gun-shy about reapproaching anything that has to do with last Saturday and know that I can be as appologetic as I can be and she can accept that...but it doesn't get things back to were.

I'm really not comfortable with this.