Conclusion (in Progress for the Rest of Our Lives)Just like losing weight and getting healthy has to be a lifestyle change for the rest of my life, our marriage recovery will be an ongoing process for the rest of our days alive....together.
To chronicle our progress, I've started a
*****Trials and Smiles***** thread on the recovery forum.
Other discussion of
Chapter 7 reveals more details about our recovery transition.
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Princess Meggy’s saga about 'Recovery NOT the MB' way was very inspiring, proving that they could succeed without Marriage Builders. Our sitch, however, is different because we found MB in the midst of trying to recover and received the boost we needed to rebuild trust from Dr. and Mrs. Harley and numerous MB posters as well as our new/old MC.
Our prayer is that others seeking solutions before*, during or after an egregious violation and betrayal of infidelity can benefit from our HINDSIGHT........... so that's why we're sharing painful experiences to help you and/or others hopefully avoid the mistakes we made.
*My ultimate prayer is that someone on the verge of an inappropriate relationship will take heed to consequences possibly not considered before it's too late and innocent lives are destroyed forever. Sometimes I wish I had a time machine with a 'do-over' gear so I could have another choice. But since yesterday's choices (or lack of them) are gone, I choose to focus on what I can control for tomorrow.
With God's help, we will not only survive, but thrive. I hope you will, too.
Be Blessed,
Ace
