The only reason I get along (if you can call it that) and respond to my ExW is because of our children. I am civil with my ExW because of them.....otherwise I would never want to lay sight on my ExW EVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEER!!!! again.....that is how much I dislike her as a person.

Im glad you are able to carry on a friendship with your ExH......I could never do that with mine....Ever.