Mostly we are using the time to meet each other's needs. So for me it is talking ... not "fix-it" talk about the relationship, but just sharing what is going on in our professional lives or with our other relationships with friends and family. And for my husband it is physical affection. Wow, pretty boring! Sorry, I don't have anything more creative.

I do like the idea of playing games together (as long as neither of you are too competitive). And I am currently trying to incorporate cleaning together (did 30 catperson minutes tonight ... LOL!).