Originally Posted by quietstorm15
Would greatly appreciate any advice on the matter. This website has been a wonderful tool.

M'd 4 years, and your H has cheated 3 times. There are no children and you basically live separate lives. You actually CHOSE a job thinking that separation would be Ok, that it would something your H could handle. People in good Ms don't choose to live apart from their spouses unless driven to do so by necessity. And finally, as one poster mentioned, there seems to be very little "passion" about your M in your post.

My suggestion would be to walk away. It sounds like what you've got is basically an M of convenience, which seems to be more of an M of inconvenience for your H. That ain't gonna work in the long run.

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