I got married about six months ago and i'm also five months pregnant. I love my husband and he is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. He and I like most couples are alike and different. He comes from a world of smoking, he tried drugs, and basically had all the fun a man would like to have in his early 20's he is now 30. I knew all of this when I fell in love with him. I on the other hand came from a world of respect, no drugs/smoking, and so to speak i grew up trying to be the "good daughter". So in a way we are different, yet we have a lot of likes, and with that is that he wanted a family like myself, loves the movies,eating out,parties, and well willing to always try new things.
Lately we miss that, we miss all of that, meaning how we used to be so sweet and nicer to each other, now we get along but when we fight it gets uglier and uglier.
I try to blame it on my roller coaster hormones and lack of funds. He too blames it on the lack of funds and well way we are both changing...
This past weekend was bad, I don't want to get into details but I will say this, we had a horrible ugly nasty argument which led him calling me a bad name, yelling, and ultimately he was gone for over 24 hours and didn't call til yesterday and finally got home by dinner time. I was upset, angry, confused, sad, and above all that I was scared. Scared that we are becoming horrible people in which we are not, its a nasty side that perhaps every human being has but not the quality we want to show to someone we love and care for. So with that said I do know that I have to do things that first is to care for my well been and my baby, second understand that in the beginning of a marriage is tuff.
What I want to do is seek help such as counseling, and I want is to not argue with my husband anymore. I love him and I want to be with him. So if you have any advice or perhaps something similar I would really would like to know that i'm not alone in this. Thank you.