Originally Posted By: holdingontoit
I know she dislikes being nudged. She has complained before. My bad for thoughtlessly doing it again. I should have verbally asked her if she was interested in dancing with me.

I know I should be all in or all out. Commit to doing whatever it takes to get both of our love banks back to positive balances. Or end it.

I am choosing to do neither. And getting what I signed up for.


Yep, choosing neither puts you in that exact place, either happy or misery.

In choosing to be all out; you can then begin to work on how to be in that place without really burning the bridge right now.

And it starts by looking within on what you want to change in your life; without having any dependence on her (actions, judgement, opinions).


-- Still JM --

Met `82, Steady May`86, Married Jul`95. D12, S9, D3. MB`ing since Apr`02 to fall back "in love."

05.20.06: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right."