Originally Posted by Retread
For myself, or Hold, or OurHouse, there is a right time to get someone to make the move to listen to a Steve Harley or whoever will get them focused on something positive that they can change.

I agree there is a "right time." The right time is when the unhappy spouse WANTS something other than the status quo enough to do something about it. [other than complain endlessly]

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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