Originally Posted by Telly
I really think so much of her rejection of you has been a rejection of herself.

Quite possible. She said something interesting yesterday. I complimented her on reaching the milestone of having lost 50 pounds. Quite and accomplishment. She is about to cross another "decade" milestone from the 140s into the 130s. Big kudos to her.

She said "losing this weight is the 2nd hardest thing I have ever done. The hardest thing was getting married. I was not ready to share. I finally feel that I am comfortable being married." I asked her what enabled her to be comfortable. She said "I like you."

I said "you are lucky you married me. If I were any less wonderful, you probably would never have become comfortable being married." She replied "you are probably right."

Ooh, ooh, I am getting better at accepting compliments!

When you can see it coming, duck!