Great news about your w. I still have much hope for you and your marriage.

Sometimes when we get movement in one area of our life another area seems to become the problem area. I'm hoping that you don't allow the difficulties with work to negate was is happening in your marriage.

My h used to say when things are going well at work they are not so good at home, when they are going good at home not so well at work. If that is true not not so sure why it has to be one way or the other.

Things will get better at work, however we can never replace relationships that can be lost when they don't have to be.