I'm sorry, Hold--I can't agree with you... Because I've SEEN you express appreciation for her body in ways she likes.

And even if you DO feel stifled, I strongly suspect her enthusiastic response means a lot to you.

You do care. you love her body. Tell her that. Just tell her "I love your body!" Don't tell her "I love your body now that you're thin!!!" Lol!

Me 42
H 46
Married 12 years
Two children D9 and D4 !