HOLD, your wife wounded? I think not. She did not have an abusive childhood, she pretends she has been date raped but I even doubt that.

Nothing could make her the selfish woman, who is thieving money, and make her character bad like it is now.

She has CHOSEN to use you for money so she does not have to work. She has CHOSEN to withold sex from you and abuse you nearly every day. These are things she has CHOSEN for her life.

i could see it a little if she has had an abuse filled childhood. But even those damaged in childhood...people (even me) can choose to be a good person and a loving wife.