Oh Hold--seriously?

You think because you don't hit her cervix that you are inadequate?

That's nuts. The 8,000 nerve endings a woman has related to arousal are NOT in her cervix.

You know, I really would like to see you get some sort of intensive therapy help. You are SOOOOOO hard on yourself.

And for heaven's sake--her disinterst in sex has NOTHING to do with your performance/size/girth. I strongly suspect that there isn't much you wouldn't do for her, and there isn't any length you wouldn't go to satisfy her (no pun intended).

You are a catch Hold. I think if you started to believe that, it would be easy to be VERY angry, and perhaps it's safer just to feel sh*tty about yourself all the time.

Me 42
H 46
Married 12 years
Two children D9 and D4 !