Please, hold.

There is nothing (NOTHING) wrong with lusting after your wife. there is nothing wrong with loving her physical attributes and being attracted to her simply on the basis of her body.

You ALSO love her (and would love her BETTER if she let you "play with the toys, so to speak) for many other reasons.

As long as a man's desire isn't directed outside the marriage, but he keeps ti reserved for his wife's body, what on earth would be the matter with that?

The ONLY problem is taht you and she are not matched in this way.

She does not enjoy your appreciation and desire for her body--and didn't even enjoy your desire when her body was not the one she had when you first fell in love.

She's not bad, but neither are you!

Me 42
H 46
Married 12 years
Two children D9 and D4 !