Originally Posted by Dr Harley's newsletter
An analysis of the betrayed spouse's childhood or emotional state of mind in an effort to discover why he or she would have an affair is distracting and unnecessary. It takes precious time away from finding the real solutions.
I've read this several times and each time I come away with the same thought:


Why in the world is Dr. Harley suggesting the BETRAYED SPOUSE would have an affair???

Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
St. Francis of Assissi