Actually, I would not be surprised if the two things are very interrelated for her. Financial issues and sex issue. Money and sex are both synonomous with power. It's no surprise that as she reached out on the money thing she also became more receptive on the sex side too. As you stopped holding $$ over her head, she stopped holding sex over your head.

That's a very interesting observation, and could very well be true.

Hold...have you taken a look lately at the number of views on this thread? lol You're a popular dude around here.


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