Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
The risks are negligible compared to how much I want to save my marriage. I'm sticking with my plan.
I think this cuts to the chase of the matter.

Naysayers should hold their water. If there comes a time for "I told you so's" then help for Gurka to recover can come then.

Right now, the only thing that matters is to help Gurka implement his Marital Recovery Plan.

Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
St. Francis of Assissi