I too agree that you can tell her about the "scary" stuff that happens to you.

Also, ITA with you on the making up the stories part.

Although, I would not call a comedian a liar, it is also something I watch for ENTERTAINMENT. I don't call actors in movies or TV shows liars. They are "playing" someone else and I believe the same could be said about a comedian.

It's not the same thing as snooping and not telling about it though. That is something you do to protect your marriage. Even DrH says that if NO affair is discovered than the spouse who did the spying should come clean. If there is EVER evidence of an affair, then the snooping should be done indefinitely.

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