Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
Just to be clear, I shouldn't respond to anything she's saying? Should I state that I've only done what I did to end the affair, in the interest of saving our marriage?

Just to be clear, plan A your W, plan B your WW. Don't respond to her unless she's nice in her email, and no relationship talk.


BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
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