Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
It bothers me how casual she seems about getting a divorce. Like it's just the natural thing to do. At one point she said, "We agreed that if ever there was a point where the bad times outweighed the good, we'd get a divorce." What?! We never agreed to that! I remember sitting on the patio discussing getting married, saying how it was for real and forever, that we'd work through all the hard parts.

I'm so thankful you never agreed to that. smile

It sounds like she is thinking a lot about weighing the good times and comparing them to the bad times. Which is good. smile Like others are saying, it sounds like these things she's saying mean she is still emotionally invested in you.

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