Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
Good morning. No word for WW. 2 weeks until her birthday, starting to wonder what I should write, or if I should call. It's been almost a month since we've spoken on the phone.

If you are going to call (and I definitely think you should call for her birthday), let her know ahead of time in one of your emails. You don't want to surprise her or catch her off guard because she will just flip out and hang up on you. Here is what I would do. In one of your emails in about a week, let her know that you will call her on her birthday. Let her know that you have no expectations of her answering or talking to you, but that you are going to call her at this time to wish her a happy birthday, and you hope to hear from her, and if not (probably not), just leave a message sounding positive and upbeat. From that point on, I would try calling maybe once a week at a set, predictable time, and eventually she will answer it.


BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
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