hee hee... I'd never tell Gurka to jump off a bridge!!!

Seriously, I think that by sticking to your original time-line to e-mail will make her want to contact you more...

She's obviously grasping for something, and I think LG is right... the investigation probably isn't over and she's trying to cover up a lie that she told the investigating officer.

You've shown her by your actions that you will not stand for her to be involved in an A and that you are working to save your M. Right now, she's still mad at you for breaking up the A, and probably still misses the OM a bit... although, I suspect that she's starting to withdraw from OM because she's starting to increase her contact with you... even if it is to threaten you and tell you what a "bad/mean" person you are!

Let her keep persuing you either on the phone or e-mail. You know what's going on and you are in control of this situation. You don't know the final outcome, but you do know what her actions are going to be based on what you've learned here... she doesn't have a clue about what's going on, with you, with the OM, with her, with her career.... that's why it's important for you to be the best husband that you can be right now in order to draw her heart back to you.

Semper Fi,

RIF