Man, she really takes the wind out of your sails. I would still send my suggested e-mail, and not respond to her threats. Don't argue with her. She is still trying to goad you. At the most, p.s her in it that her stuff is safe. Don't even mention anything about her absurd accusation regarding you hurting her. Make her seem to be the imbalanced one. Be above it.

I do think her first sentence about "I don't see how you think you are going to stay married to me without ever talking to me, but clearly none of this is working" is very telling. It seems as though she is trying to convince herself almost.

Last edited by ouchthathurt; 05/14/10 06:03 AM.