Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
My reply:

Why would they not want to hear from me? I've never been anything but
nice to them, tried to help them when I could and be a good son in

I'm not signing the papers. I am your husband, and you are my wife,
and there's nothing that's happened between us that can't be worked
through. I'm committed to this marriage, and to you and that's not
going to change. I'll call you this evening around 2130 your time.


This is overkill from the last email you sent earlier today. Now is not the time to be emailing this stuff. You just need to come off as concerned and supportive right now. Drop the relationship emails.


BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
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