Originally Posted by RIF
One of the biggest redflag's out there is when a person wants to keep friends of the opposite sex...

Usually these people are attention and admiration junkies that need constant affirmation to compensate for their self-esteem issues. These people are prone to all sorts of affairs and are not marriage material until they fix their issues.


BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
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