Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
I'm not depressed, I'm fine, really.

And you wish you were the one that was blown up in the convoy? And you are volunteering to put yourself in harms way?

Just remember, you have no kids and no shared property. It's like you are playing with house money trying to save this marriage. If it doesn't work out, you tried, but there a million more women out there that would make a MORE suitable wife and mother. You are willing to try and save the marriage because you made a commitment to her, but you'd be better off finding a better mate. Either way, you win.


BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
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