Hey Gurka!

I agree with others, do NOT engage her in any relationship discussions!

Keep your e-mail chatty, ask about her father, ask how the wedding was, but NO relationship talk. I think the fact that she e-mailed you is a good thing, even though she's still nasty and snotty to you.

I also agree that you can't keep running from the Divorce papers... you will eventually have to deal with that, and I think that a "calm confrontation" may be needed.

Semper Fi,