If at the end of all this she still wants to divorce you even though you are willing to work on things, then she isn't the type of person you want to be married to anyway and you dodged a bullet.

Hey Gurka - I agree with Jim... if your efforts don't have any effect on her, then you will know that you've done everything possible to try and save your M... You can't force her, and if she ddoesn't want to work on the M with you, then you will be MUCH better off without her.

Semper Fi,