Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
At this point I have no expectation of being able to save my marriage when I get back to the states. The only thing WW talks about is divorce. I feel like I'm beating my head against the wall here.
Gerka, it's not over yet. You have been doing so well!
Beating your head against a wall, that's a typical feeling in this situation, and one that doesn't end for quite some time.
As long as you are in the corner of wanting to save your M, ignore her babble of D.

Once you get back home, time will tell whether or not she will commit to R of your M.

We will support you in whatever direction you want to go, that's a given. smile

M'd 22 years
BW-me
D-Day 08/08 LTA