Gerka, When you do see her and if she will not be moved from divorce, you need to alert to the fact that she does not deserve you. I sincerely hope that when you see her face to face, that you tell her that there is no way she will ever find a man like you again. Someone who was willing to do the hard work of trying to reconcile a marriage with an adulterous wife. That you deserved better and that one day you will find a woman that is worthy of your love and commitment.