said my parents weren't bringing her the dog and refuse to ship him so "I win."

Any particular reason why SHE can't go get the dog herself rather than expecting your parents to deliver it? Other than, of course, the fact that she doesn't want to have to face them? Thats alot to expect of your parents when they KNOW how she has been treating their son,,,not to mention time, travel & expense.

just when she thought we were rebuilding our marriage,
MrRollieEyes WHAT was SHE DOING to rebuild? An obvious rewrite....... dramaqueen

You did GOOD!! VERY good!!

Dday- Feb 1998