Again with the sexual that must suck for the two of you. You certainly have a loop running through your head don't you, Hold?

I don't often feel sorry for your wife, but to constantly have the idea of sex hanging between you, to know that any move she makes can somehow be related to sex must only intensify her insecurity and unwillingness to deal with her issues.

What an awful treadmill you both ride.

Formerly nam here since 07/31/03 coastal, CT