This is so sad but I can somewhat relate to you. When I was 18/19 years old I was with a man that was 32. He wanted sex all the time. We had it about 2-4 times a day and it is exhausting. Even when I was not in the mood he would still want to get his and I would lay there and let him. This lasted a long time because I loved him and did not want to lose him. Anyhow later down the line (now) I have come to realize that he has a very bad sexual addiction. It was way worse than I thought. I am not sure what advice to give you as I only got past it by leaving him. I am not suggesting this but there should be some type of counseling going on so that he understands that you have emotional needs not just sexual. I feel that you are a very strong person to have been dealing with this for so long. I am sorry to hear that you are going through this but really hope someone can give you some sound advice.

Last edited by TwistedMoments; 06/22/10 07:04 PM.

Me: 26
Him(Fiance): 29
Children (mine): 6 year old Son

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